Helping people to do things would always be a joy. Carrying a box weighing 30kg, I got a little injured on my legs. Being in that situation, I still have the joy in my heart, because I helped people.
I did ‘quarrel’ and I did love seeing the girl. She, being somehow boyish, will express her ideas directly towards people, without considering good or not (usually not).
She cared about her shape, her appearance, and her manner as well.