Today, on one of the Chinese BBS (Ark), Two guys are fighting for some truth, arguing for the existence of God and similar things.
There is an old Chinese saying: “No fighting, no knowing”.
A little bit of argue could help improve the relationship between two persons while too much will just cause the opposite effects. I love to spend time with friends discussing trivial things so that we can feel the close relationship between us. But after sometime, I stopped arguing, because I found it useless, unless you show your actions.
Do it, brother.