Being a fool

Love is mutual, or you better be a fool. Fooling around with emotions is not fun, though you might get return on your investment, finally it is you who lose. So is trust, one-sided trust is not only a waste of time, and you feel like being used as well. Vincy (3/16/05 17:57 pm) don’t…

Reading Blog

Human thinking could be so complicated that you did not even know the decision of the last minute would void in the next second. Reading her blog, I realized she was happy, and for some unspeakable, deeply hidden reason, she rejected the rose and the love. Happily she would say I do not want to…

Analogy

When you are walking on a very slim road, and the dark way is just so broad beside you, what would you think? Once you step onto the dark road, you are falling down, stop!. You find it so hard to continue walking on the narrow path, why not grab a friend going towards the…

Flowers Rocher and Card all prepared

I am quite upset and excited right now, as I am going to say “I love you” to the girl later at night. I doubt the result, though I believe heart-breaking maybe something healthy and falling in love is better. Result: Not the better one

Trust is important

When you are with the best friend you have, you know you will trust the person, even though things may go against what you think. People are unpredictable, and because of this unique characteristic, we are called Human, and I am learning as a human to trust people. Is trust mutual? The answer may not…

Understanding

What does it take to understand someone, I think the answer is “your life time”. You are never able to understand a person completely, not even you are genius, because every creature on the earth is uniquely created by God. I had doubt on John’s words, simply because he says those without the understanding of…

How to live with a Wife who is so Weird?

1.Man need to be the head of the house (leader) Headship does not mean inferiority of the woman, but resposbility of man for the home. Headship does not mean dictatorship but Servanthood 2.Man need to be the heart of the house (lover) Cherish our wives Communicate with our wives Consult with our wives.

Shocked by the words

After today’s preach on the role of man, I was quite encouraged at the time. I want myself to be a caring person, learning to cherish, to communicate and to consult. These are the simple rules to make life happier, because they are set by God. The most interesting thing I have learned is that…

A capable girl and a capable woman

The girl on the left is Phoebe, studying life science in NUS. Though tough looking in this picture due to it was shot very early in the morning, she is kind and gentle, and quite good at organizing big events for hundreds over people. The girl on the right-hand size is Mary, Chemistry Major. Perhaps…

Fighting with Time

I had quite a bunch of work to rush off next week. When I finished arranging the time table, I myself was shocked. I found it is *fullly* packed. 24-hour battle is no fun. Having experienced such awful time, I won’t do it again. But how could I organize my time more efficiently? I do…

Girl Bumped into My Life

It is now very late at night, or we could call it very early in the morning. I am not sure which one of these two moods is affecting or they both are affecting me. I suddenly feel quite relieved from a relationship. By God’s grace, I think I am able to face it if …

God Changes Lifes

Time goes by and by. Unconsciously, it is the mid-term break in the second semester – being in Singapore for more than two years. Recalling all I have done till now, I feel God is so real in my life. I was once referred as “the naughty boy”, never knowing how to deal with matters…